Dear single hearts,
I know that right now you are not in a romantic relationship with any guy/girl. You may be enjoying your singlehood or you may be in a wait of the right person to strike you right there or you may be in love with someone who doesn’t love you back. There are ofcourse so many possibilities out there. But let me tell you, there’s no right guy or right time.
Yes, you heard that right. Often we hear people telling us that we’ll find the right guy in the right time. But, after you meticulously study your own life you shall be able to understand that there’s no thing as the right guy or the right time. Infact, who are we to decide what’s right or wrong for us? Everyday, we stumble upon hundreds of new faces (superficially). We interact with them. Some, we connect more with and some, less.
Today, I may seem like some cranky old lady trying to persuade you into believing something imbecile. But,what I am saying is the truth. Trust my words for once, will you?
You know there’s one of these things that keeps me inquisitive always is that how can you know who is right for you? When can you know that the time is right? Well, the fact is we have this propensity of believing what’s right for us when a certain thing manages to induce a positive energy in our lives; when we feel happy; when life runs smoothly. And the moment a person becomes the reason behind negative vibes in our lives, we stick a tag of “not the right person for me.” We, not even for once push our minds into thinking that if it wasn’t us ourselves, no thing in this entire universe has got the power to make us do what we don’t want and noone really can own the key to your happiness if you don’t hand it over to them.
The right guy and the right time can be “created” by you yourself. Look around you once, maybe you have failed to recognise the one whose energy matches with you. You may have not given that person enough time and chances to prove himself/herself to be someone whom you can carry on a beautiful, err to be precise a matured romantic relationship with, which eventually has the ability to make your life beautiful.
Now, after much backspacing since the last seven minutes I have decided to wind up everything by simply stating that time is really precious, and so are people who really understand you. Learn to balance between whom you need to be patient with and whom you need to cut off from your life. Yes, cutting off because some people don’t give rise to a positive aura around you. Their energy is not something that you must be seeking for. Otherwise, there ain’t a thing like a wrong person. It’s totally based upon how we perceive things as and how we can take our lives the “right way” and make the most of the time left with us. 😉
Another single heart.
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